Sunday, May 25, 2025

Wenlido (short memoir) by Leanne Dyck

How does a rural gal adjust to life in an intimidating big city? My solution...

When in your life did you feel the strongest?

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 Wenlido

I graduated from high school and was eager to kick over the traces of my small town. My heart held no fear, only dreams of an exciting life. Winnipeg delivered. I attended university and met my husband and... I had many great adventures.

When I moved from Winnipeg (population 702,396) to Greater Vancouver (population 2,132,800), my confidence was shaken. Are the streets safe? What would I do if something happened? These questions haunted my sleepless nights.

Trying to calm my anxiety, I signed up for a women's self-defence course--Wenlido. The class was led by a capable and caring instructor. I learnt to de-escalate problems before they arose by initiating a conversation; aim for the knee caps, not the crotch; and how to break out of a wrist hold. The class culminated with the ultimate challenge--breaking a board with your hand. If I were successful, nothing could stop me. If I failed... If I failed, I could break my hand.

The instructor and my fellow participants cheered me on. "Come on, Leanne, you've got this. Slice that board in half. Visualize your hand sailing right through."

I swung my hand back and then forward. Down... Down... Down. Snap. The board broke. My hand didn't. 

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I walked out of that class with my head held high. Whatever happened, I was ready.


written on December 13, 2005



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On this blog in June...

Sunday, June 1

Floating Away (children's story)

...about sailing away on a bed boat...

Sunday, June 8

Children's Hospital (short memoir)

...about the day I was assessed as dyslexic

Sunday, June 15

Tying Laces with my Dad (short memoir)

 When I have trouble tying my shoelaces, my dad...

Sunday, June 22

Book Review for Indigenous Day

Two Tricksters Find Friendship by Johnny Aitken and Jess Willows

...is a year in the life of a new mutually supportive friendship between Jessie, a white girl, and Johnny, an Indigenous boy

Sunday, June 29

Book Reviews for Canada Day

Canadian Reads: a collection of my favourite books by Canadian authors

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A writer's words mean

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